To the casual observer, this young couple look just like any other teenagers in love. But pretty Katie Hill and her boyfriend Arin Andrews share a unique bond - they were both born as the opposite sex.
Katie, 18, spent the first 15 years of her life as Luke, son of a Marine colonel, while Arin, 16, was born a girl called Emerald who excelled at ballet dancing and won beauty contests. Both struggled with their sexuality all through their childhoods and were teased and bullied but their lives were changed when they both began hormone therapy and later met at a trans support group in Tulsa, Oklahoma, and instantly fell in love.
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| Arin Andrews, 16, pictured left, with girlfriend Katie Hill, 18, were both born the opposite sex |
- Katie Hill and her boyfriend Arin Andrews were both born the opposite sex
- Katie, 18, and Arin, 16, met at a support group in Tulsa, Oklahoma
- Both have undergone hormone therapy and Katie had gender reassignment surgery shortly after her 18th birthday
Katie said: 'All I saw was a handsome guy. We're perfect for each other because we both had the same troubles growing up.'We're both size five, so we even swap our old clothes our mum's bought us but we hated.
'We look so convincing as a boy and a girl, nobody even notices now. We secretly feel so good about it because it's the way we've always wanted to be seen.'
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| Arin Andrews, 16, left, was once a girl called Emerald while his girlfriend Katie Hill, 18, right, was born a boy called Luke |
High-school student Arin undergoes testosterone shots to give him the more masculine shape he's craved his whole life.Meanwhile high-school graduate Katie, 18, has finished her female hormone course - oestrogen shots - which helped her to develop natural breasts with no silicone implants.
Katie, who has legally been a female since she was 15, believes she was born with naturally high levels of oestrogen and was teased as a boy throughout school for having small AA-cup breasts.
Katie, who has legally been a female since she was 15, believes she was born with naturally high levels of oestrogen and was teased as a boy throughout school for having small AA-cup breasts.
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| Luke Hill before he become Katie |
An anonymous donor was so touched by her story they paid for her £25,000 ($40,000) gender reassignment surgery just four days after her 18th birthday on May 16, 2012.
Katie added: 'Even from age three, I knew deep down I wanted to be a girl. All I wanted was to play with dolls. I hated my boy body and never felt right in it.'I kept my feelings a total secret growing up and was petrified of what people in our tiny Christian town would say. Now Arin and I can share any problems we face together.'
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| Emerald Andrews before she was turned to arin |
Arin recalls a similar experience and says he knew he was a boy inside from his first day at school, aged just five.
'The teachers separated the girls and boys into separate lines for a game,' he said. 'I didn't understand why they asked me to stand with the girls.
'Girly things didn't interest me, but I was worried what people would think if I said I wanted to be a boy, so I kept it secret.'
Arin's mother Denise, 41, encouraged him to compete in local pageant contests and he became an accomplished female ballet and clogging dancer.
But Arin's secret love was riding motocross bikes with his father Mitch, 42, and doing triathlons and rock-climbing.
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| Arin poses next to a portrait of himself when he was still known as Emerald |
'Mum and dad argued when my motocross clashed with my dance schedule,' he said. 'But at age 11, mum gave up. She couldn't win. But I'll never hold it against her. She was just proud of her only daughter.'
Mrs Andrews now supports Arin by helping with his testosterone shots and has vowed to help him pay for breast removal surgery if he can raise half of the £3770 ($6,000) costs himself.
For the time being, Arin hides his chest by 'binding' - tight strapping around the torso use by transgender females-to-males.
Even Arin's little brother Wesley, 11, has even started calling Arin his 'big brother'. 'It makes me so proud,' said Arin.
Arin's determination to live his life as a male comes after years of 'humiliating' bullying throughout school.
'It was horrible,' said Arin. 'I looked like a pretty girl but acted and walked like a boy.
'Everyone started calling me a lesbian. It felt so humiliating. I didn't feel gay at all.
'I started having suicidal thoughts and told my parents I felt confused, but I didn't even know transgender people existed, so it didn't come up.
Mrs Andrews now supports Arin by helping with his testosterone shots and has vowed to help him pay for breast removal surgery if he can raise half of the £3770 ($6,000) costs himself.
For the time being, Arin hides his chest by 'binding' - tight strapping around the torso use by transgender females-to-males.
Even Arin's little brother Wesley, 11, has even started calling Arin his 'big brother'. 'It makes me so proud,' said Arin.
Arin's determination to live his life as a male comes after years of 'humiliating' bullying throughout school.
'It was horrible,' said Arin. 'I looked like a pretty girl but acted and walked like a boy.
'Everyone started calling me a lesbian. It felt so humiliating. I didn't feel gay at all.
'I started having suicidal thoughts and told my parents I felt confused, but I didn't even know transgender people existed, so it didn't come up.
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| Arin and Katie kissing each other |
'They said it was OK to be gay, but put me into therapy for my depression and to help with my confusion. My feelings of being a boy sounded so stupid I didn't even say it in therapy.
'Then a student at my school, a Christian school, told the teacher's office about a girl I was dating.
'They kicked me out because it was a religious school, even though I was a top pupil.
'I started another school and things have been better there. But everything changed when I met Katie.'
Arin realised he wasn't alone after reading about Katie's transition from male to female in their local newspaper.
'All her loneliness and confusion over feeling she was the opposite gender all her life sounded exactly like me,' added Arin.
'It was the moment I first had an explanation for my feelings. I realised I was 'trans' too. I finally had an answer after years of confusion.'
The pair eventually met in a local trans support group and hit it off.
'She was beautiful and looked just like Megan Fox,' said Arin.
'I longed to know who she was and eventually plucked up the courage to do the guy thing and ask for her number.
'She said yes and we started seeing each other.'
Katie had only learned what 'transgender' meant by browsing the internet when she was 15.
'I'd been so unhappy growing up,' she said.
'As I got older it got worse and I couldn't help being really girly with a high-pitched voice and high cheekbones.'
Katie's mother Jazzlyn, 44, and father Randy, 58, a Lieutenant Colonel in the United States Marine Corps, struggled to deal with their son's confused feelings at first.
'My parents were scared stiff and put me through 15 therapist to try and cure my depression,' said Katie. 'None helped because nobody suggested I was trans and I didn't know what it was. 'When I was 15 I found the word 'transgender' while desperately searching the internet and instantly knew it was me.
'Mum was so terrified of losing me. I'd once tried to end my life, so she agreed to help me. I owe her everything.
'We made a list of all the things I wanted to do, like wearing bras and panties, getting hormone therapy and maybe one day having gender realignment surgery.
'My brothers and even my grandma Judy were so accepting I was shocked.
'Dad was upset at first because he felt like he was losing his first son. Over time he's learned to accept me and now calls me his "daughter", which makes me smile.'
The couple are speaking out about their experience to help raise awareness of trans issues.
'More needs to be done to let people know about transgender issues,' said Katie.
'We both spent years in the wilderness and felt so alone.
'Our parents didn't know how to help because none of us knew being trans was possible. Nobody should have to go through what we did.'
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